BUMP!! Yesterday, when driving home, the same symptoms returned. Flashing engine light for about 20 seconds, then solid engine light and the car was bumpy in general. Engine shaking much more than usual. So this morning, I went out to check the usual. I decided to start by checking the same spark plug as before, and sure enough the spark plug was dead. Is this proof that something more worrying is happening in the long run or is this a mere coincidence?
Also when I replaced the spark plug, the new one didn't seem to want to tighten fully. It was like the wrench just kept moving after a while, when the plug was in place? Anyway, I put it back together, turned the key and the engine sounds much better again. Though it might take a day or 2 for the engine light to reset.