Who mentioned specific words?Racist jokes, subjective?
Do you think the 'n' word is racist?
What about black people calling other black people 'n', racist?
Welsh jokes, racist?
Scottish jokes, racist?
If so then 90% of jokes could be described as 'ist' of some sort.
I am not into censorship and I certainly wouldn't want my mates to behave differently in front of me for fear of being labelled. Society is far worse off since 'PC' became the new craze.
LastMagicBean made a racist/Islamophobic joke.
I think you're jumping to enormous assumptions.
You've lost the plot and scrambling for an argument
I, for one, expect my mates not to make jokes in front of me that make any minority a joke. If I found out that that they were ridiculing me, or any other minority, in my absence, they would no longer be considered "my mates".
I suspect that they are aware of that, and they choose to remain part of my social circle.
You, of course, are entitled to your opinion and your attitude.