This chap is walking down the road when a great big hole opens up & he falls down into it. The hole is deep, the walls are steep & slippery & he can see no obvious way out.
As it starts to get darker a doctor comes across the hole & peers down into it. "Hey Doc, I'm stuck down this hole, can you help us?". The doctor scribbles out a prescription, throws it down the hole & moves on.
A few days pass & a priest stumbles on the hole. "Hey padre, I'm stuck down this hole & I can't see a way out, can you help me?" The padre writes out a prayer & throws it down the hole.
Weeks go by & the chaps friends & family are missing him, they form a search party & go out looking for him. After a short while one of the friends reckons he knows where he is & goes straight to the hole. He looks down into the hole & finds his friend at the bottom. "Hey, I'm stuck down this hole & I can't find the way out, can you help me?".
The friend jumps down into the hole. "Are you f#kkin crazy? Now we're both stuck down this hole" but the friend replies "yeah, but I've been down here before & I know the way out".
All that we have is talk, all we can do is talk. You have to be there to talk.