There doesn't seem to be much doubt that the word 'contactor' is generally used to refer to a "high spec" relay - but that doesn't help me to understand what (if anything) is the difference (and the differences of 'requirements' per the relevant Standards) between a "high-spec" component described as a "relay" and one with exactly the same spec described as a "contactor".I imagine it is much to do with switching speed and arc suppression but this is a guess as the unit I created for the pumps was 4 pole 5A rated contacts wired in parallel and the pumps were something sizable ~3KW ish. It ran for months without problem, however the contacts didn't switch the load but if they did I'm convinced they would have burnt out very quickly.
As you imply, switching high currents to inductive loads is an issue, but I imagine that switching large DC currents is even more demanding. If they can't do what the specification say they can do, then the spec is obviously just 'lying'- but that's equally true of devices with either name.
Perhaps someone knows 'the answer', at least in general terms?
Kind Regards, John