You might find that after you have reduced the pressure it may go up again when the central heating is on. This could be because the expansion vessel needs re-pressurising in the boiler, as the pressure increases above 3 bar it will drip out a pressure relief pipe and then lose pressure when the...
the hydrow flow is £150 on its own so they are doing the heat exchanger for free. If you dont buy both i would personally go for the magnabooster as it sounds more like a sludge problem than a scale problem,you should be able to tell this when the heat exchanger is out.
if the hot water is going hot cold hot cold and the boiler is shutting down then firing up then shutting down,then its a sure sign your heat exchanger is blocked. If they replace this without fitting a heating filter then it will just happen again, so unfortunately i think the filter is a good idea.
everytime you bleed a rad your taking pressure out of the system, if this drops below 0.5bar the boiler will fail to light. markymark's right you need to top up the pressure to 1 bar via the silver flexible filling loop
It could be a trv fitted on the wrong side of one of the rads (return pipe). With the heating on and all the trv's open slowly turn down each trv one at a time and see if you can replicate the noise