I thought it was a big no no to have a TRV fitted to a rad in the room where the wall thermostat was fitted?
No not really, in an ideal set up having the wall thermostat in a room on the lower floor (clearly as heat raises) with no alternative heating (this includes sun through the window) keep cool (as don't want it to trigger in summer) and no outside doors (as they will clearly cool the room when opened) it may all work without a TRV in the same room as wall thermostat.
But in the real world such a room does not exist, so the room normally used is the hall, and this has a door in it, so if the lock shield is set to keep the room needing slightly more heating than rest of house, once door is opened the hall becomes not just cool but rather cold, so we fit a TRV in the hall as well, then when the door is opened the TRV also opens and reheats the hall reasonably fast, but before it turns off the wall thermostat the TRV closes, not completely off, but with vastly reduced flow, so the last degree to turn off the wall thermostat takes a lot longer, this allows modulating gas boilers to do as they are designed and modulate, and gain the latent heat in the flue gases, if a gas boiler is externally turned off, on turning it back on, it will run flat out, and so insulate a temperature hysteresis, but if it turns down then off due to the temperature of the return water, on turning on again it does so at minimum output, reducing the temperature hysteresis to a very low level.
What I am saying on/off control needs to be as infrequent as possible, if you use a modulating wall thermostat then what I have said is not required as the thermostat will not generate a hysteresis, so using the likes of OpenTherm gets around the problem and allows the gas boiler to gain the latent heat, also with an oil boiler in the main they don't modulate anyway so again what I have said it not really true, but I would think most people today do use a modulating gas boiler without ebus control so in the main yes we do use a TRV in same room as wall thermostat.
There are always exceptions, my last house was open plan, there was no hall as such, or doors between down stairs rooms, and the Myson fan assisted radiator ensured there was air movement between the rooms, so not TRV's on lower floor, and just one thermostat positioned between the two main rooms. TRV's stopped bedrooms from over heating, there was no need for them down stairs, couldn't fit them if I wanted on fan assisted radiators, but homes like that are rare.