My installer says the boiler will modulate down to 6kW so I guess that will be ok.
Your installer is wrong. The 26kW combi modulates down to 9kW and the 30kW combi down to 11kW.
If you keep your house at 17C the required boiler output, assuming -1C outside, will be 9.5kW.
That means the boiler will be running at its lowest output most of the time, As it cannot modulate any lower, it will revert to on/off mode for the majority of the year, which is less efficient.
It is very difficult to find a boiler which modulates below 8kW, which is ridiculous as many UK houses need them. One make which does is the
Remeha Avanta. All models go down to 6kW. They are available in gas and LPG versions.
Does the installer know that you keep your house at a relatively low temperature? He will have assumed 21C.
Have you had your water flow rate and dynamic pressure checked? There is no point installing a large combi if the flow rate is not high enough. You need 2.5kW for each litre per minute. This will give a 35C temperature rise, i.e a 10 litre/min rate needs 25kW. If you install a 25kW boiler and the rate is faster, the temperature rise will be less, and vice versa. The pressure determines if you can have more than one outlet running at the same time without one influencing the other too much. Obviously the flow rate will reduce on each.
We keep the thermostat down to 17C during the day and 15C at night which is probably a bit cold for most people. I think the house shouldn't be too warm in winter, you should wear a jumper plus lpg is so expensive
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