I don't think that's really what we are talking about. The discussions (in which I am not infrequently a participant!) which undoubtedly get many OPs 'lost' and/or confused are those about details of interpretation of regs (opinions about which often vary, sometimes 'passionately', between discussants) and which, at least in some cases, DS would probably describe as attempts to 'bend' the regs (although such is never my intention - I seek to explore interpretations, not to 'twist' or 'bend' them). When, as is often the case, discussants (including electricians) disagree, it's hardly surprising that OPs get confused!Rather than enter a long discussion I would just ask: Do legal forums often descend to law quoting? I fail to see how quoting or complying with the regulations to which we must adhere is other than the only way to reply.
Indeed, and you, as an electrician are obviously in an even more difficult position than I am. I would not normally advise, either in public or private, something which I believed was significantly non-compliant with the regs, even if it were something I might do in my own home. The usual situation in which I attempt to give 'pragmatic' advice is when an OP has become totally confused by differing (sometimes 'contradictory') views being expressed by people involved in a discussion, usually about regs. Recent discussions about omission of overload protection, downstream protection of cables, the loading of double sockets and your own suggestion of a 4mm² unfused spur feeding two single sockets are all fairly good examples of that.It is interesting to note that you offer pragmatic (contradictory?) advice in private. That I may do something in my own home does not mean I would do it in a customer's.
Occasionally, if I judge an OP to be sufficiently knowledgeable, intelligent and sensible, I may tell them 'what I would probably do if it were my house', but, if appropriate, I will explain that it is not (or not necessarily) strictly compliant with the regs (explaining the regs and, if possible, the reasoning behind them) and that it is for them to to make a judgement about what they want to do in their home, bearing in mind what the regs require.
You are really attempting to introduce a 'sensitive' discussion which, almost by definition, cannot really take place in public, even if it does relate to things that nearly all of us will have done/said at times 'in private'!
Kind Regards, John