Right, I've found the following 2 diaphragms on a spare parts site; is it the first one i need?
BAXI DIAPHRAGM (SMALL) COMBI 80E 105E 248065
3 WAY VALVE COMBI 24, 24HE, 30HE, 80E, 105E, 105HE PERFORMA 28, 30HE
BAXI DIAPHRAGM (BIG) COMBI 80E 105E 248066
FOR PRESSURE DIFFERENTIAL VALV...