No, not acquiesce. It’s just how it goes in a free market. People have a right to be whatever they like, within the law. Since no one is doing anything illegal here it’s a case of one man’s meat is another man’s poison. Your moral compass is different to that of other people. The mods, not just here but in general, can be damned for doing something and damned for not.
There will always be those who are easily offended and yet more will argue along the lines of I can’t so much as fart around here.
To tacitly accept something as inevitable is as to acquiesce, surely.
To take your scenario of the other day, in a bar in Stratford. If you'd said something to those that were behaving unacceptably, and someone intervened with the argument that it's a free world and those behaving badly have a right to do so because they are doing nothing illegal, you would have acdepted as a fair argument, and similarly acquiesced?
Additionally, wouldn't the behaviour of all protaginists be deemed divisive.
However, you wouldn't have started the division, those behaving unacceptably would have started the division because they ignored the rules on proper behaviour in society.
Or should we re-write the unwritten rules on what is acceptable?
And you have made a big assumption about who a mod is. I think you are wrong about that; you know that thing about ass/u/me?
Sorry, I don't remember making any assumptions about who is a mod.
I've made a guess about joe being the owner, which someone, possibly you, mentioned earlier, and since retracted. In addition, joe has been one of the longest members on here and has gotten away with far more than anyone else.
Like I’ve said, this isn’t a church and yet you have elected yourself to clean it up like one.
There's the rub. I have been a contributor and in the past contributed to the other forums. But, when I objected to the abuse on the GD forum, I was banned for it.
It was called for by the abusers and admin obliged. Therefore, it can only be assumed that admin/owners are basically of the same mind as the abusers.
It’s more like a brothel, with a few slappers I wouldn’t touch with a bargepole.
Then it ought to have a warning of such behaviour. Moreover, if an underage person or someone who was easily offended accidentally wandered into a brothel, they would soon be turfed out.
There is no such method of avoiding the potential of giving offense other than to ban those objecting to the abuse.
With respect, I don’t think either me or you can, or should, act like self-appointed forum police. If I tried to pull a stunt like that on other places I’ve been they would tell me, in no uncertain terms, to stick my attitude where the sun don’t shine.
A self-appointed policeman (a) has a degree of power, which I don't, only influence. Therefore the analogy is false. and (b) a self-appointed policeman, who was upholding the acceptable standards would probably gain some majority support. In GD forum there have been a few vehement objections to my criticisms, none less so than yourself.
You have raised your objections well, forcefully and consistently. But if I were you I’d let it go now - it is not our Site!
Similarly, BT, you have been the most staunch supporter of abuse in GD forum.
You can’t enter the Pentathlon and expect everyone only to throw javelins. I remember a phrase someone once told me long ago “
What you resist persists. When you stop resisting it stops persisting”.
Again not a suitable analogy.
People can discuss any subject they want to, including immigration, racial tension, etc, but without resorting to abuse. It's not difficult.
Moreover, somethings need discouraging, not overt outlawing.
If discrimination had been discouraged perhaps it would not have been so prevalent and legislation may not have been required.
Abuse, based on prejudice, based on ignorance, should never be tolerated.
It will not disappear if we ignore it and to suggest it will, is naive.
Perhaps you should start a Web Site, something like cleanupforums.com.
(I just made that up BTW).
Not a bad idea. I could elicit support and ideas for cleaning up forums such as GD forum.
In conclusion, BT, you are suggesting that:
a) abuse on GD forum is a fact of life
b) we should accept it
c) it isn't going to go away, unless we ignore it
d) if we do ignore it it will stop
e) it's a free world and we should allow people to misbehave if they want, and
f) if people are offended, so what? Who cares?
Does that about sum up your argument? Isn't that anarchy?
Anarchy rules!
I could add a little icon to suggest a bit of irony is required but that would be supercillious.