dingbat said:
FWL_Engineer said:
JP, dingbat may accuse me of p*ss*ng on people chips, but he's talking ****.
Er, excuse me, but your heavy-handed manner in response to almost every post does very little to endear you as a mentor. You almost always start out by telling somebody what they
can't do, making assumptions about their lack of expertise. Knowledgeable you undoubtedly are; wise, perhaps less so.
Heavy handed? Oh well, and you call me sensitive
I am not here to be anyone mentor. Regarding assumptions, very often the manner of a post and the question allows anyone to make an informed jugdement call as to a persons knowledge and ability, I am not alone in this. If a person cannot do something, because it is dangerous or illegal or obviously beyond their abilities, I will tell them. I have never believed in pussy footing about, be straight and honest with people, they choose to ignore me then that is up to them.
dingbat said:
Yup. That's how I make my living. I'm a one man band, so your margins simply don't apply to me (or Albert, or JP for that matter) because I have few overheads. As I win almost every job I quote for and make high margins (60-70% on a per job basis) the issue for me is not getting the price right, it's getting the calls in the first place. An increasing proportion of my work is by referral, so I must be doing something right.
Glad to know your making a living, but you of all people must understand the point I was making, I was wrong in your case, I apologise, however you must admit the skill of being able to assess a small job as you look at it di not come overnight. It takes several years to hone that skill, and sometimes costly mistakes along the way. Without very good knowledge of the job, it is impossible to price correctly, and this is something that JP certainly and maybe to a lesser degree Albert need to address if they are to start their own companies and be a success.
dingbat said:
Of course I don't make a mint. Of course I couldn't do your job. I have no interest in becoming a mogul; I do this so that my liveliehood is in my hands and I suspect that this is also a motive for others.
Who says that i) I make a mint, and ii) I want to be a mogul? Neither of these comments fit me, I want enough money so I do not have any financial worries and can concentrate on what I want to do, that day isn't here yet. As for mogul,
please I have no more desire to be one of those than I do to be a lapdancer. As fo you not being able to do my job, in terms of FWL and the other contractor, you may be able too, if you are a qualified spark and your used to the mundane paperwork and administration it entails, then 80% of my job you probably could do. The third company I agree, you could not do that job, but as it is only marginally electrical that is no surprise.
dingbat said:
As for the age thing, you're right. Age does not itself impart experience, but it does inform you of human nature. I work for people who trust me in their homes - I think my grey hairs help.
I agree, I honestly believe we are all more trusting of the older generation, and life experience is a major factor in dealing with people. I am proud to say that within FWL and CEL no-one has ever questioned the honesty of our engineers...to me that would be a personal disaster.
dingbat said:
You have much of value to share, FWL, but your sensitive and prickly arrogance doesn't exactly endear you to your audience. Rather than get into an argument about it though, let's see if we can both be grown up enough to leave it at that.
I've been accused fo worse..I wouldn't say I was arrogant, but then I do not see me as others do, maybe I do come across that way..I hope not always..but we should all remember it is difficult to impossible to read any inflection into a persons post, they are cold words, and whilst we all need to be aware of what we write, we also all need to be aware that how we choose to read those words may not be how they were intended to be read.