Whaddya Do???

[Dextraneous]

You are not the person with the problem. Stop acting like you are.

Empathy isn't really your thing, is it?

What would you do?

 

[Dextraneous]

You are not the person with the problem. Stop acting like you are.

Empathy isn't really your thing, is it?

What would you do?

JD- you're silence screams loudly.

 

[handyjack]

You are not the person with the problem. Stop acting like you are.

Empathy isn't really your thing, is it?

What would you do?

Get the lad and his mother to convert to Islam and JD will pay the bill.

 

[JohnD]

If person X has a problem (of their own making) and I carry the problem away and fix it, I have made it my problem.

I have also trained person X that he need have no responsibility to avoid creating problems, and he need have no responsibility for solving them.

I have done person X a disservice.

Is person X a child, or mentally incapable?

 

[handyjack]

If person X has a problem (of their own making) and I carry the problem away and fix it, I have made it my problem.

I have also trained person X that he need have no responsibility to avoid creating problems, and he need have no responsibility for solving them.

I have done person X a disservice.

Is person X a child, or mentally incapable?

You are the fooking problem.

 

[Dextraneous]

If person X has a problem (of their own making) and I carry the problem away and fix it, I have made it my problem.

I have also trained person X that he need have no responsibility to avoid creating problems, and he need have no responsibility for solving them.

I have done person X a disservice.

Is person X a child, or mentally incapable?

Nice try What would you do?

 

[JohnD]

I told you in my first post.

If you don't like it, you are welcome to ignore it.

 

[Dextraneous]

I told you in my first post.

"That's quite a problem you've got there. What do you plan to do about that problem of yours?"

How does this explain what you'd do about it?

 

[JohnD]

Note the quotes

If person X comes to you and says "I've got this problem, how are you going to fix it for me?" you need to put the problem back on the shoulders of the person who owns it. You are not the problem owner.

It's not your monkey.

 

[Dextraneous]

If you don't like it, you are welcome to ignore it.

You haven't actually answered it

 

[JohnD]

Note the quotes. The text is what you say to the person who has a problem who wants you to take the problem away from them and fix it for them.

You can't fix a drug user, or a drunk. Sometimes they can fix themselves, if they want to, if they try, and maybe with some help.

'Bye.

 

[Dextraneous]

Note the quotes

If person X comes to you and says "I've got this problem, how are you going to fix it for me?" you need to put the problem back on the shoulders of the person who owns it. You are not the problem owner.

It's not your monkey.

So, what would you do?

 

[Dextraneous]

Note the quotes. The text is what you say to the person who has a problem who wants you to take the problem away from them and fix it for them.

You can't fix a drug user, or a drunk. Sometimes they can fix themselves, if they want to, if they try, and maybe with some help.

'Bye.

So, what would you do?

 

[Dextraneous]

Come one monkey mod, what would you actually, in the real world, do????

 

[Dextraneous]

Come one monkey mod, what would you actually, in the real world, do????