jj4091 - nice one. It worked!
just to be clear to others in this predicament:
The old switch had
A (comm) B (1-way) B(2-way) at top
A (1-way) A (2-way) B (comm) at bottom
The incoming wires were red, red/grey and black
A (comm) was connected to B (comm) with short connecting...
I am replacing a nromal double switch (1-way) operating a wall light and ceiling light, neither ofwhich are operated by any other switches
I am replacing it with a 2 way double dimmer switch (I realize this was probably not the correct purchase but it's all they had and they said it can be...