Check that cylstat 1 to N (any known N in the circuit, not the blue in the Cylstat) is 240V when HW is demanded by programmer.
Your diagram appears to show boiler is wired with 240V external switching throughout but be aware that some Vaillant proprietary controls use volt-free switching...
Can't answer that without being there: these fittings however are designed for rough-handed gentlemen in muddy trenches to reliably achieve first-time success.
Any combination of
check the pipe ends for distortion, recut using pipe cutters if required
a smear of silicone grease on inserts (you did remember these) and pipe ends
more force to achieve full insertion (Matron!)
should suffice.
Within the power limits dictated by the existing cabling, breakers etc.
It would be poor advice to encourage the OP to wang in a 10.8kW unit on existing 6mm² cable, for example, without qualified on-site assessment.