Morning All - Thanks for all your help so far.
I've just tried a few things and think I've found the cause of this problem -this is what I did:
1. turned hot tap on on it's own = nice hot water and the temperature doesn't seem to fluctuate (always too hot to put my hand under)
2. left hot tap on and added some cold = after a bit of playing around, a nice warm temp
3. left hot tap on but turned off cold = goes very hot for a few seconds, then cold, and then hot again
I think this means the boiler is modulating down when the cold is added (as the flow is lower through the boiler, right?) and then when you turn the cold off, it modulates up again but there is a slght lag (ie. burst of cold water through the hot tap) before the temp gets back up again.
Does this make sense? If so, I'm assuming the problems I'm having whilst showering under my manual mixer is that the cold flow/pressure is fluctuating as other people down the street are using it- thus causing the boiler to modulate as it should but it doesn't modulate quickly enough and the temperature under the shower therefore fluctuates up and down?
If this is right what options do I have? I've tried playing with the DHW knob on the boiler with limited success but would a set of termostatic mixer taps work or am I stuck with this for good??!!
Thanks for all the help so far and any further info would be brill!
Ben