Internal insulation would probably qualify for the Green Home Grant, if you or your son is in receipt of any significant support you might be eligible for £10k of works without having to make a contribution. The downside is that the process is very slow so you'd only get it this spring or summer.
If it's 17 years old I'd expect it to be a cavity wall, which you could have filled, which is much cheaper and quicker and less disruption to the room, which can be an issue for some with ASD.
BUT, even if it's a cold wall enough ventillation or a dehumidifier can keep the problem in check.