Pointing is often done 3:1 anyway which is more grey. If you want to go even greyer, use a less orange/red sand. Our local plastering sand dries paler than our building sand.
Also rugby cement is apparently darker.
I'm doing the same job on my patio and have made up some test mixes. Small amount of black dye and plastering sand has come out a nice grey for me.
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