Is it a 4 inch post,all i did with a rotten one was to remove fence panels either side where attached to rotten post and drill out the rotten stuff with an auger or wood twist drill and whack the new post in after soaking in old engine oil for a couple of days,having taken a second look at the pic what is the piece of wood behind the post that the gravel boards are attached to,perhaps a picture from the side showing that part.