My sister who worked for 20 years was struck down with MS about 7 years ago and has been in a vegetative state for the last 5.
My brother in law had to give up work to look after her and they used up all their savings and get themselves in a financial pickle trying to stay afloat - bear in mind that they hade two children of primary school age at start if all of this.
He has been given direct payment by the government which he has to arrange 24 hour full time care for her, and he can't work since he has to be available at all times should my sister have a fit and he is also one of her carers for which he gets about £35 per week income support. This arrangement is heck of a lot cheaper for the state than having her hospitalised 24/7.
We give what we can to help them financially, he does the occasional treatment (he's an acupuncturist) to help top up the coffers. Meanwhile, every year the state is trying to cut back the level of support it gives them even though they live frugally, and the way in which the authority wants to pass the buck to another department would mean a substantial decline in the quality of service provided at greater expense to the taxpayer.
So joe, in your nice little world of black and white, where does their plight lie?