I know this might only bre considered as a stop gap measure but........
if you assume a average yearly mains temp of say 8C and a required HW temp of 40C, you could consider installing a restrictor in the shower outlet to give say 10LPM
At 1OLPM the boiler will only be running at ~ 65% output so around 12kW spare thermal capacity to help deal with a hot tap opened elsewhere at ~ 5 to 5.5LPM, this assumes a thermostatic shower and the boiler DHW set to 45C, its a compromise but maybe less painful until you finally decide on your next step.
if you assume a average yearly mains temp of say 8C and a required HW temp of 40C, you could consider installing a restrictor in the shower outlet to give say 10LPM
At 1OLPM the boiler will only be running at ~ 65% output so around 12kW spare thermal capacity to help deal with a hot tap opened elsewhere at ~ 5 to 5.5LPM, this assumes a thermostatic shower and the boiler DHW set to 45C, its a compromise but maybe less painful until you finally decide on your next step.
