my advice, for what its worth to you is this, if you can, do not get the CSA involved, they will take as much money as they can from you and give a lot less to your kids. it was the root of all nastyness between my parents as my father was paying over £100 a week for 2 kids and my mother was recieving £40 of it but neither of them spoke so we were just told how much of a bastard he was. I pay the my ex straight into her bank account so 1. there is a record that i have paid and 2. She gets the full amount chin up mate and remember kids will make up their own minds its just a waiting game.
Hi Lee Yes this is the place, I have put you on my friends list, so we should soon be able to communicate off list. Regards Gerry
Hi EFCLee1's If there is anything I can say to help please don't be afraid to ask, anything we talk about will remain strictly between ourselves. My real name is Gerry and I am 65 years young, I live fairly locally in a town called Widnes. Speak soon Regards Gerry
Hi EFC Thanks for the offer. I have to be careful though that I don't break any laws, or my job & position as Scout Leader will both be up the Swannee. If this is a lawful procedure, then please contact me ( simon@secure-electrical.org.uk ) to let me know further details. I suppose I could always try and buy a kosher copy off flea-bay. Thanks again. Secure (Simon)
