Whilst I understand your concern, I can't see how youi can have it both ways - in other words, I can't see (without the use of a relay or similar) how you could arrange that if the lighting circuit 'failed', the sockets one would be guaranteed to do so as well.
You could ger part of the way there (in terms of just earth leakage faults) by not having any RCBOs, but having both lighting and sockets protected by the same, single, RCD (with separate MCBs for lights and sockets) - but the downside of that would be that if the sockets power failed (due to RCD trip) then so would the lights. In any event, if the lighting circuit were to fail because the MCB tripped, the sockets circuit would then not die unless you had included a relay to bring that about.
Kind Regards, John