Ah. The pressure will be the LOWER of the mains pressure and 3 -3.5 bar. so it could be , er 1 bar.
Yours is the separate pressure-vessel type too (I think), so you don't have the entirely fortuitous pressure-reserve of some types. Do you have a loft?
How long are the 15mm pipes?
What make is the mixer/contrivance thingy? Do you have any tech info on it?
You need to measure what the heck's going on. Measure those flow rates in litres per minute with all open (add em up). Also measure the flow at the kitchen COLD tap and tell us, then open the garden tap as well
and measure them both, telling how far apart they are. (Sounds daft - just trying to do it in one hit).
Then buy a water pressure gauge - about £12. Measure the P at the garden tap with no others flowing, then open the kitchen tap to give say 10 litres per minute and record pressure.
Hope you can see what I'm driving at. If your mains supply is poor, you may have to do something radical to get a good shower. Is the unvented cyl new installation? Did the installer have certificate to show competence?
You won't like this bit : do you still have a big ol' cistern in the loft?
How would you feel about a pump?
Is the shower head fixed? If so I don't right now see why you need a dcv. Might be wrong about that though..