I have checked the house and there are 4 points where the cold water could mix with the domestic hot water. I have placed a check valve on pipe that feeds the hot for the sink and wshing machine and also been able to isolate the hot water for the mixer tap on the bathroom basin. The problem still continues and my last port of call is the mixer shower - the hot and cold pipes for this are hidden in the wall so diffcult to put check valves on these. Would it cause any problems if i put a check valve on the cold feed to the cylinder from the cold water storage tank and also on the hot pipe from the cylinder (below the tee for the vent). If not any other suggestions please. 
