Im the same as you sick of being ripped off from so called professionals...If I could find or trust someone to do the job right, I would just pay them, but I can`t so i do it all myself now..
I suspected my coil may have been leaking as the hot water tank overflows sometimes too..(But luckily I have an over flow pipe fitted, as least they did that right 35 years ago)..but I think its my mixer tap in the kitchen, the cold water pressure is a lot stronger than the hot water gravity fed system, when the mixer tap is mixing, ie half on cold half on hot, I think the cold water high pressurer, is pushing into the hot water pipe, and up into the cylinder, then over flow pipe, there are no oneway valves on the system as far as I know?
I suspected my coil may have been leaking as the hot water tank overflows sometimes too..(But luckily I have an over flow pipe fitted, as least they did that right 35 years ago)..but I think its my mixer tap in the kitchen, the cold water pressure is a lot stronger than the hot water gravity fed system, when the mixer tap is mixing, ie half on cold half on hot, I think the cold water high pressurer, is pushing into the hot water pipe, and up into the cylinder, then over flow pipe, there are no oneway valves on the system as far as I know?