You can't use a piece of wire instead of a bulb, as that would create a short circuit.
You could use a long piece of wire, say about 1km of 1.5mm² copper, connect it to the battery and see absolutely nothing happen.
How would that help?
If you wanted to simulate a bulb to connect to your battery you could use a 12Ω resistor, but I really can't see what difference that would make to the fact that you don't understand what's going on. All that would change would be that you'd get no light out of the resistor, just a bit of heat. How would that help?
An online simulation without a bulb? That would be a drawing or a photo of a battery with a resistor across it.
How would that help?
You could use a small electric motor, and what you'd get out would be the motor turning.
How would that help?
The bulb doesn't
do anything to become a load, it
is one because it has resistance. The bulb does not force electrons through the filament, the battery does.
Please take the list above, add this one to it:
http://www.google.co.uk/search?q=electricity+(101+OR+basics+OR+fundamentals+OR+introduction)
and start reading - you really aren't going to get anywhere with your current (no pun intended) approach.