Oh Dear

[securespark]

http://uk.news.yahoo.com/bodies-children-found-mum-killed-fall-153112494.html#ocJtMtC

 

[Bodgeitandleggit]

http://uk.news.yahoo.com/bodies-children-found-mum-killed-fall-153112494.html#ocJtMtC

That is horrible when you hear the children are dead........although we don't know the full story you can draw conclusions with the police looking for nobody else....very sad indeed

 

[sooey]

That poor girl, trying to cope with 3 babies on her own and another on the way. Poor kid, I feel so sorry for her and those little babes.

 

[ellal]

A mother who (apparently) kills her kids gets sympathy...

You can bet that if it was the father who did it, he would be vilified...

 

[sooey]

You can bet that if the father had been living with her and helping her with his kids, she would never have been driven to do it.

 

[ellal]

Thanks for proving my point sooey...

So even though it appears he had nothing to do with their (apparent) murders, he must be to blame...

 

[joe-90]

Had she never heard of contraception? Never considered the life she could offer children? Where's the social responsibility?

 

[sooey]

Thanks for proving my point sooey...

So even though it appears he had nothing to do with their (apparent) murders, he must be to blame...

We don't know the ins and outs, but if things are as they look then he is partially to blame imo.

 

[ellal]

We don't know the ins and outs, but if things are as they look then he is partially to blame imo.

Indeed we don't know the 'ins and outs', but yet you immediately blamed him!

There are always 'contributory factors' if you want to find them, but ultimately if the kids have been murdered there is only one person to blame - the murderer!

Top yourself if things get bad enough, but there is never an excuse to take little kids with you...

 

[sooey]

No actually, I simply expressed my sympathy for the poor girl.
It was you took objection to that and brought the father into it, but seeing as you did then yeah, he's got his guilt to bear.
Have you ever tried looking after a couple of babies on your own 24/7.
Don't judge her if you haven't.

 

[joe-90]

I think we all know what the 'ins and outs' were. Use a condom.

 

[Bosswhite]

Thanks for proving my point sooey...

So even though it appears he had nothing to do with their (apparent) murders, he must be to blame...

We don't know the ins and outs, but if things are as they look then he is partially to blame imo.

The same opinion must apply to the Mother when a Father kills the Children.

 

[ellal]

The same opinion must apply to the Mother when a Father kills the Children.

Only it never works like that does it!

 

[sooey]

The same opinion must apply to the Mother when a Father kills the Children.

Only it never works like that does it!

It would if the mother abandoned the father and left him to look after the kids on his own.
That's not usually the case though is it? From what I see when a father does that it's usually because he's a self centred bstrd who can't take rejection, takes the kids out for a day and doesn't bring them back, to hurt the mother.
Different motivation entirely.

 

[Bosswhite]

The same opinion must apply to the Mother when a Father kills the Children.

Only it never works like that does it!

It would if the mother abandoned the father and left him to look after the kids on his own.
That's not usually the case though is it? From what I see when a father does that it's usually because he's a self centred bstrd who can't take rejection, takes the kids out for a day and doesn't bring them back, to hurt the mother.
Different motivation entirely.

Or the Mother denies the Father his rights to see his Children, which is probably the main trigger point.

Fathers4Justice would disagree with your statement.