Last nights Martin Lewis money show touched on this and there are important things to know - especially if you’re not married or in a civil partnership

A terrible affair all round, I met up with him 2 weeks before he died and he asked me to ensure his wishes were followed through. He had everything sewn up with solicitors, not talking a few pounds here he was an extremely wealthy man.
Joint tenants I would sayWhen you bought your current house did you own it 50/50 Joint tenants (or some other split) or are you tenants in common (both owning 100%)

That has the benefit of simplifying transfer upon your death, but makes it harder to "set aside" your share for your kids. There are going to be swings and roundabouts here. It's easy to change, but as it stands if you die your wife owns the whole house and vice a versa.Joint tenants I would say
It sounds like his solicitors didn't do a very good job of arranging things.

Joint tenants I would say
So we just need to trust each otherThat has the benefit of simplifying transfer upon your death, but makes it harder to "set aside" your share for your kids. There are going to be swings and roundabouts here. It's easy to change, but as it stands if you die your wife owns the whole house and vice a versa.

once you're dead - its on to the next person. nothing stops them from changing their will after.So we just need to trust each other![]()
Bit of a minefield isnt it?once you're dead - its on to the next person. nothing stops them from changing their will after.
So we just need to trust each other
With tenants in common does that mean that if I die and my wife went into a care home (OMG I hope not) my half would be safe from the care costs?If you want a proper legally binding arrangement, I think you need to own the house as tenants in common, then make some sort of life interest trust in your Wills. There are other more complex types of trusts such as discretionary trusts, but they are often for people with lots of money. It all depends on your situation. I would start by ringing a few solicitors for some free initial advice about the options.

YepIf you want a proper legally binding arrangement, I think you need to own the house as tenants in common, then make some sort of life interest trust in your Wills. There are other more complex types of trusts such as discretionary trusts, but they are often for people with lots of money. It all depends on your situation. I would start by ringing a few solicitors for some free initial advice about the options.

nopeWith tenants in common does that mean that if I die and my wife went into a care home (OMG I hope not) my half would be safe from the care costs?
That was really nice what your mom didWe did ours a few years ago. Mirror wills. One other thing we did at the same time was to change our status from joint tenants to tenants in common.
My mums will which was made about 30 years ago left a decent sum to our children too. It was still a decent sim 30 years on. When she passed away last year, inside the will was a handwritten note from her saying that we should give the same amount to her grandchildren’s husbands and wives and the great grandchildren too. Obviously as executors we honoured that. Dunno when she wrote that but I think it must have been while our daughter in law was pregnant because she specifically mentioned to set it aside for the child of any of her Granddaughters if they were pregnant at the time of her death.