The main and immediate issue here is condensation (cold bridging), rather than heat loss etc.I don't think you'd ever get back even the cost of the tile board in reduced heating costs. It's just not worth worrying about.
The tile backer was to sit between the steel and the plasterboard. It was only a small part of a lintel that would have touched the plasterboard.
Not necessarily no. Some are built using thermally broken insulated proprietary lintels, others are built using two pieces of steel (inner and outer leaf).It's exactly how any wide opening anywhere is built. There's nothing special about it, so don't see the need for special attention.
Not especially no. It may be that it's supporting a flat roof or a ridge beam above, i.e. vaulted roof etc.Is 3.15m unusually long?

Oh no, not this nonsense againI'd worry about trapping condensation and causing rust from within by filling it with foam.
It would be helpful to see the full proposed detail on plan, rather than just the cross section of the steelQuestion is how to minimise cold bridge?
I'll really struggle against such a carefully considered argument.Oh no, not this nonsense again

Careful with the use of the word "prevent" - there are certainly various degrees of reduction depending on the thickness of board used, but lacking any specifics your post might lead someone to think if they whack a 6mm jackoboard in somewhere and magic; no more condensation riskprevent cold bridging?

ah, thanks for the input on the hit and miss welding...and thermal mass.useful to know. Seems external wall insulation over the steel and blockwork would be the only decent way of insulation the steel to prevent possible condensation & bridging... Obviously, just like all other mistakes on this build... the Lintel arrived with only 150mm bearing at each end... SE specified 300mm (presumably to help react the torsion loads that this type of steel design is supposed to accommodate)My guesstimate is that its U-value will vastly exceed the insulation of the sealed glazed unit, even if allowing for the fact that there will be a degree of cold bridging via the metal lip to the outside. It has hit and miss welding to minimise this effect, its thermal mass will mean that it remains much closer to the room temperature than outside temperature.
I'd suggest that if you built a sauna within the room while making endless cups of tea and using a wallpaper steamer then the glazing would be running with condensation long before any dampness appeared on the wall around the steel joist.
I really don't see the issue, and can't see how it could be done any other way - at least not without having a visible steel or concrete joist in the outer wall that nobody wants.
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