An increasing number of people won't be happy until everything is vanilla. If we've to include everybody in everything and no longer have categories and obvious differences (e.g. Brits doing away with best male and female which was largely instigated by one person ...) what we end up with is a vanilla society. Everything the same. Nobody offended. Job done.
It's getting to be the case that if you state facts e.g. females are generally not as physically strong as males you get slated as being sexist. For stating a fact.
In my world, here's a fact. Pro swimming should have a from birth male category, from birth female category and ... to keep everyone happy ... a m>f trans category and f>m trans category. Surely that keeps any competitive advantage as similar as possible between the categories? Instead of having farcical situations where a 'woman' wins by a proverbial country mile.
Yes some people on both sides of these arguments are 'ist', the law of averages deals with that. However for most, the frustration comes from the illogicalness of these situations.
In short, it's becoming a feckin' joke ...