As I said, my father died 50+ years ago, very 'prematurely', but if he hadn't, he would only be 98 today, so much the same vintage as your grandfather. In latter years, he was based at Leavesden (Herts), but very frequently travelled to DerbyLucky enough to have a Grandfather still alive in his mid-90s and he worked at Rolls Royce in Derby in the technical testing department ....
That's consistent with what everyone else (other than one) is saying here. As you say, this talk about ';across flats' (the current accepted meaning of "AF" refers to nuts, bolt heads and spanners etc., and has absolutely nothing to do with any specific thread, "American Fine" (70+ years ago!) or anything else!!... he also worked at a former company called International Combustion. He says they only every referred to these types of nut heads as 'Across Flats'. His period of working at these firms was between the mid-'50s and early '70s.
Kind Regards, John

