Have you poked something like a needle through the very end of the lance nozzle to ensure it isn't blocked? It's amazing how one bit of sand can nerf a jet wash nozzle.
If it does seem blocked (can you see daylight through the nozzle when removed from the handle?) poke it and back-wash it with the hose, or remove the nozzle jet (sometimes they're brass and unscrew) before you poke it. Not much point, if it is blocked, poking the blockage back into the lance body as it will simply block the jet again at some point
Is that lance adjustable i.e. can you twiddle the end to get various pressures?
They don't normally vary the pressure per se; they just move a pair of flaps so they squash the water jet into a fan. The pressure emerging from the jet will be the same
Second pic wyen i put the handle/gun on it, the preesure isnt as great.
3rd pic, the same as pic two. Splutering
You've got half the handle/lance on it. The pressure there seems ok; you have to remember that the hole on the end is tiny and where all the power comes from. Without that part of the lance fitted the end won't emit water much faster than it would from a standard hose connection because the bore of the pipe inside the lance is huge compared to the jetting nozzle at the tip of the lance
The process for getting the air out of an jetwash, if the lance comes in two parts (trigger and end) would be to remove the end, squeeze the trigger and turn on the hose pipe but do not turn on the jetwash machine itself
Wait until it's finished blowing air bubbles (there may also be air in the hose pipe)
It isn't clear from your photo but you should really have an inline filter on the hose pipe just before it enters the jetwash, to help keep grit out of the pump and lance, something like eBay item number 124936232174 is convenient