Just to clarify, I, A, B, C and (I think) H are owned by the electricity board, the feed from the street main is the concentric to the top of I
F, D, E and G are owned by you
In your postion, I'd probably ask the REC to
i) PME it
ii) Configure A for dual tarrif and take away B, C and possibly H (I'm unsure what H actually is)
Then I'd (or I'd get an electricial contractor to) remove all the stuff owned by you, split the tails through a henley and install an 80/100 switch fuse to feed to the house CU (the existing cable would have to be evaluated and tested, to see if it could be reused, or whether a new cable would need to be installed*) and a new small-ish board to feed anything in the garage (the job done by F atm)
*just OOI, how difficult would it be to get a new cable to the house?