Not with you there. If you have CWST in the loft, HW cylinder on 1st floor, and shower on ground floor, you're OK. There'll be a vent pipe from the top of the HW cylinder going up and over the CWST, and one way is to tee off that for the hot feed to the shower. Tee as low as poss in the loft, or in the airing cupboard. Or depending on the house layout, it might be easier to tee into a pipe between the HW cylinder and the downstairs taps
That sounds interesting. Could you explain a little more how that would work? To confirm, you're right. Tank in the loft, HW cylinder, on the floor below (1st), and shower on the ground floor.
So at present, the HW outlet at the top of the HW cylinder goes up out of the centre of the HW cylinder and splits two ways. One way to the shower as the HW supply, on the ground floor, and the other way goes off to the HW taps on 1st and ground floors. This last pipe splits a bit further along at a T-junction. As you stated, one arm of the T goes vertically straight down to the basin taps (on the 1st floor and ground floor), and the upper part of the T-junction is the vent that vertically returns upwards to the loft space and in the loft space bends over the lid of the tank, before entering into the tank through a hole in the lid.
If I'm understanding your suggestion correctly, that's similar to what we already have in place, except the feed off to the shower is higher and nearer the cylinder HW outlet.
Here's a photo, but I'm not sure if that helps. But here goes.
So the pipe coming down the back wall, nearest to the L of centre, which has a blue lever on it and a red tag (tagged so my partner knows which pipes are which if I'm away and she needs to know urgently!) is the current cold feed coming down from the CW tank in the loft. Just after, and below the blue lever you can see if splits two ways. One going to the base of the HW cylinder to feed cold in, and the other is the temporary CW supply to the shower downstairs (the shiny new copper), running horizontally L to R and then downwards.
The top of the HW cylinder has the HW feed, and the first junction going to the R and also initially horizontal, feeding the HW to the shower. Above this junction to the shower, the pipe continues and levels out briefly horizontally, and runs towards the back of the airing cupboard, where it splits vertically. Up is the vent to the tank in the loft, down is HW to the HW taps. The vertical pipe behind it with the brass stop tap on, and a green tag, is the mains CW supply to the tank in the loft. The other horizontal feed coming off the mains supply also with a brass stop valve feed to a field trough behind the house. Other piping is CH related.
That's probably as clear as mud!