What make etrc is the cylinder?
Looks like a tank in tank.
The numbers you've quoted/highlighted above are the continuous HW output at 60C with a boiler temp of 70C,
The primary flowrate is 3m3/hr, 50LPM, your boiler hasn't a hope of supplying this flowrate, most boilers design flowrates are calculated using a dT of 20C so a 20kw boiler would have a design max flowrate of 20*860/60/20, 14.3LPM, this might result in a dP through the boiler HEX of anything from 2.0M to 3.5M, it might be in the boiler MIs. Anyway, for info, 40ft of 22mm piping flowing 50LPM will have a dP of ~ 5.8M alone but 28mm piping would reduce it to 1.5M.
Why are you quoting the continuous HW output from the HW cylinder?, in your case, 352LPH, 5.87LPM at 60C, or 9.78LPM (9.08LPM with 19kw boiler) when mixed with mains at 10C. You installed the cylinder because you didn't want/require a combi.
a 120L cylinder at 60C will provide nearly 200L at 40C so will "last" for 20mins at 10.0LPM, 13mins at 15LPM etc, you will then have to wait for the cylinder to recover which will be a good bit longer than the quoted numbers since realistically you'r primary flowrate will probably be more like 20LPM, you could all ways, if necessary, increase the boiler flowtemp to 80C which would compensate to a large degree.