Second - if I fit one of these connectors with an isolator - won't I still have to turn the water supply off if I need to replace it in the future? ( I know it would have been useful to stop the leak...or change a washer)
yes
So a separate isolator would be better - but I would have to cut a bit of the pipe out to put the isolator in and then have a short length of pipe to join onto the connector? (lots of compression joints - recipe for disaster?)
na common practice