... and not only "brow beaten" - it was not unusual for other body parts to be literally 'beaten' if one dared to do anything with one's left hand.
A good "party task" of dexterity:
For someone right handed, they use their left hand. Best to get them to sit on their right one, as otherwise the urge to bring it into play becomes virtually irresistible.
Also once started, you can rest your left elbow on a table, but your hand can't rest on anything, and you can't push what's in your hand (which is a full, or nearly full, box of matches) against anything.
You hold the closed box in your hand.
Open it, remove 1 match, close it.
Poke the base of the match through the top of the box so that it sticks out more or less at a right angle.
Open the box again, take out another match, close the box.
Strike the 2nd match and use it to light the head of the first. You may push the match sticking out to any angle you choose, but it must remain stuck in the box.
You'll find, near the end, that it becomes a test of nerve, as well as dexterity, but it can be done without burning yourself.