I'm not sure what you are trying to say there Tim, but certainly running a dimmer at half mast is more stressful than turning it full on, your explanation of the phase cutting that happens with a standard dimmer is spot on, but the instantaneous currents (which matter to electronics) are going to greater,if for example you set your dimmer to loose the first third of each half cycle, your lamp is obviously going to be cooler, which means a lower resistance which means that for the part of the cycle for which the triac does conduct the currents will be greater (just ohms law)
I suppose if you just put it on say a 10th where the waveform is just about to cross zero again and the voltages involved are a long way from peak then the currents would be manageable and it'd just take the chill off the filament, like preheat does, before turning it up to full pretty quickly, but turning it up slowly and going through the range when you can actually see any visable light is going to be more stressful for it than putting it straight on (though with most dimmers going through this would be difficult to avoid!)