endecotp, good evening.
Where to start??
If the Deafening ash has indeed been totally removed? which Idjit did that? Recently I has an insurance claim that was a Complaint, where the insurance Contractor removed the Ash because "it could" be damp / wet [the leak was confined to a tiny area but the entire room area of Ash was removed from below, that was the timber Ash bearers [Deafening boards] and the timber bearers on the sides of the joists, what a Numptie?
OK the best way of Re-installing the Deafening is from above [OK obvious statement] how to get some sort of Deafening retro fitted, not only that but from below?
One modern equivalent to Ash [used in Georgian / Victorian properties, because it was plentiful given the number of Coal fires] is something like "Quietex" which as I recall comes in loose form or in bags, the latter can be [with some difficulty] be retro installed, BUT? you will require to rip down the existing ceiling, fit straps to the sides of the Joists, then slip a ply? bearer to hold the weight of a bag of Quietex next is to repeat the last process over and over again, problem is when you come to the wall ? and try to get the Quietex bag into the gap then support it in place?
After all my typing I hope you have the general drift??
As for the embedded steel mesh [Exmet] it is used to form a "Framework" to bridge a gap and allow the Plaster to bridge the gap.
Could be that the Ash has not been removed over the entire area of the floor???.
Suggest you have a google at Quietex?? on that site it gives you depths of that material to achieve the required Sound attenuation
If you have a look at Sound block Plasterboard, this material will assist, BUT??? if the Ash has indeed been removed over the floor area then more drastic action could be required.
Sounds [no pun intended] like you are facing a very common Scottish Tenement problem?