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I have done many times and to be honest I never once thought of that hurt that I could be doing. In retrospect, I had no control over my actions - I saw someone I liked and nothing else mattered. I just adore the more attractive members of the opposite sex.
Well, it all turned out nearly ok for you, fair enough.
I would disagree with your (now) emboldened statement in that you can't control your emotions (I feel them now!!), but you can control what you do about them.
You are probably right! However, if the opportunity came my way right now, I know what I would do. It's the way that I am.