How tight should the female end of a tap connector with a rubber washer in be tightened on a 1/2 male fitting or a iso valve with 1/2inch at one side of the valve? As tight as can by hand and a quarter to half a turn? To avoid over thighting the rubber. Though this is more of an issue I believe if going on to a normal iso that is not machined flat so can cut in to the rubber washer. Thanks.