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'Uncle Don'

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I have my car, booked to have a new silencer made and fitted. It's some distance from home, so I looked it up on Googlearth, to make it easier to find. Checking the map out, I realised that the last time I'd been in the area, was as a youngster.....

When I was quite young, my father had a motorbike and sidecar, but very few tools. If he needed tools, or often just to socialise, he would drive over to 'Uncle Don's' garage. The garage/car repair business, was up a rough track, the garage a large rambling shack of a place, surrounded by scrap cars, floor covered in grease, but always busy.

Just Don, and an Irish guy working there. In those days, you always called adults, uncle or aunt, so I never knew whether these people were, or were not, related. Though I have wondered ever since, what the relationship was, friend or relative. My father, was on minesweepers, during the war, so Don might have been a friend from those days. I investigated, my family tree a while ago, and no Don(ald) appeared on that.

The past few days, I have been inquiring on a local FB group, see if anyone might remember an old garage, in that area, operated by a Don, with an Irishman helping him. Bingo - a woman in the group, remembered the place, and had played with his daughter as a child, and even managed to remember his surname.
 
I have my car, booked to have a new silencer made and fitted. It's some distance from home, so I looked it up on Googlearth, to make it easier to find. Checking the map out, I realised that the last time I'd been in the area, was as a youngster.....

When I was quite young, my father had a motorbike and sidecar, but very few tools. If he needed tools, or often just to socialise, he would drive over to 'Uncle Don's' garage. The garage/car repair business, was up a rough track, the garage a large rambling shack of a place, surrounded by scrap cars, floor covered in grease, but always busy.

Just Don, and an Irish guy working there. In those days, you always called adults, uncle or aunt, so I never knew whether these people were, or were not, related. Though I have wondered ever since, what the relationship was, friend or relative. My father, was on minesweepers, during the war, so Don might have been a friend from those days. I investigated, my family tree a while ago, and no Don(ald) appeared on that.

The past few days, I have been inquiring on a local FB group, see if anyone might remember an old garage, in that area, operated by a Don, with an Irishman helping him. Bingo - a woman in the group, remembered the place, and had played with his daughter as a child, and even managed to remember his surname.
I find stories like this very interesting. I'm fascinated by places, spaces, buildings that we frequent in our lifetime. As with your story, sometimes years or decades pass before we return to said places, if indeed we do at all. And as you've touched on, it's all to do with memories and sometimes a longing to return to happier times, albeit often viewed through rose-tinted glasses.

In a movie I watched once, a lady returned after decades away. 'Life and time has a habit of running away from you.' Sums it up I suppose.

Oh, I also had an 'auntie' who wasn't actually an auntie :)
 
Also 'Uncle' was the name given to the tally man on his round collecting loan payments, usually on very easy terms. Always a jolly man with a non-imposing style of demeanour. Unlike the rent collectors who gained the nickname Duke of Kent.
 
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