I'm asking out of curiosity.
When stationary in traffic, such as lights, should the transmission remain in D or be moved to N?
My aunt has a 1994 Merc C220 and if in D, it will creep forward if the brakes aren't applied which in my opinion strains the car.
From a YT video, it said an automatic should be in N before applying the handbrake and then moved to P if being parked up.
I've never owned an automatic.
I think that at that age, the Merc is probably a conventional "torque converter" auto? If you come to a stop in "drive" (or any gear), and hold the car on the footbrake, the torque converter will just slip. It's just hearing fluid when it does that. There are no friction linings being worn. At idle speed, there is hardly any power being generated through the engine and being transmitted by the torque converter, so it would probably happily sit there like that until it ran out of fuel.
At higher RPM, it would quickly build up a fair bit of heat in the transmission fluid, which would be undesirable.
If you took it out of gear each time you came to a stop, there would be some wear on the clutches inside the gearbox that hold the gears as the engage / disengage. This wear would put particles of friction material into the transmission fluid, which isn't ideal. However, the ca would use a tiny bit less fuel at idle.
I think conventional wisdom, is to leave them in "drive" if you're only going to be stopped for a few minutes.
With automated manual ("DSG" or "Tiptronic") type transmissions, they DO have clutches - sometimes oil-immersed, sometimes dry) which
would wear if left in gear at the lights, I think most (perhaps all?) of them just automatically disengage their clutches if the computer sees zero road speed and some pressure in the brake lines, for more than a few seconds.
It therefore, doesn't seem to matter much ether way?