If it does not work why do they specify it as the connection method when testing rads?knowing what works and what doesnt.
If something works in theory and in practice, but not in a particular case, that normally means that there is a flaw in the implementation. In the OP's case, the system is probably well out of balance, due to the addition of a 3-3.5kW radiator.
Also, the fact that the OP says that both pipes are very hot suggests that the LS valve has been left fully open. So the water will take the path of least resistance, i.e down the first few channels in the rad. Consequently, one side will be hotter than the other.