AFAIK it is possible. I am fairly sure that I have seen an Alpha 35C fitted with external controls. Although, manufacturers do change the designs from time to time so there could be more than one variant. However, the wiring diagrams in your boiler installation manual will show if external controls can be fitted.
I would guess that in your case, the Easy Stat receiver is probably an integral part of the boilers front panel. So, whilst it can be decommissioned it can be tricky, which may explain why the engineer that you referred to is reluctant to do it.
Whether it's worth it or not, depends on what you want to achieve. If you want better comfort or economy you probably won't notice much, if any difference, but if you want the additional remote control facility via WiFi (assuming of course that you don't have it already) or the aesthetic improvement the Nest offers, then it might be worth it to you.