Hi Patrick,
For a car-bearing apron, go with a 1:2:3 (cement:sand:gravel) mix — plenty strong for driveway/car loads. Don't overthink ballast vs separate sand+gravel, ballast is just pre-mixed sand and gravel, so buying it that way is fine and usually easier (one less thing to measure on site).
For your 0.45m³:
- Cement: ~6 bags (25kg each)
- Sand: ~450kg
- Gravel: ~650kg
(or if going with ballast instead: ~1000-1050kg ballast + same 6 bags cement)
On "Handy Bags" — there's no fixed standard across merchants, most list them around 25kg but you have to check the actual product page. If your merchant does loose bulk bags (by the tonne) instead, that's usually cheaper and more predictable at this volume anyway.
Reinforcement: yes, use A142 mesh, especially since you're butting up against the existing slab — that joint is exactly where cracking tends to start without it. Fibres are a nice add-on, not a substitute for mesh.
I cross-checked these numbers using the
Concrete Calculator - How Much Do I Need? | CalculationHub and they matched what I worked out by hand — worth punching in your own dimensions there before heading to Jewson, just so you've got a solid number to hold the merchant to when their bag sizes don't quite add up.