I don't know how to check resistance at the OBD connector.
Why would you want to? If you don't know what you are doing, and can work in a knowledgeable, methodical way, you can do an awful lot of expensive damage, to a modern car's electronics.
I have the auto engineer coming out tomorrow.
Just leave it to him!
AI also advised me to check voltage on the relay fuses but that would seem to be impossible as the pins are not exposed like the regular fuses.
As already pointed out, AI is absolutely no help to you.
