About tying it to the outer wall, could he just not reuse the ties that are still hanging from the brick wall?If the wall is put back, it needs to be put back properly - tied in to the surrounding walls properly, the wall above packed properly, tied to the outer wall with steel ties, the cavity thoroughly cleaned out of all debris, and not a load more debris dropped in when he's rebuilding it!
Also, should I set everything straight from the beginning and discuss about "who pays for this?" or should I wait until the whole bathroom renovation job is done?