On the subject of this thread. Of course the donut isn;t reality and I doubt that anyone thinks for a second that it is. It is a place that some come onto to while away a bit of time and de-stress from work or get away from the mundanities of everyday life. I.e. - a place for escapism.
As such, it is entirely natural for spleens to be vented on here amongst strangers; so it follows that it is likely to be an aggressive place to be.