The problem with any safety net is that many will use it as a hammock.
There are two choices - tough love, where many won't get the help they want, or looking after everyone where many take the pee out of the rest of us. We're currently the latter, but we can't afford it so the former will be the outcome after someone responsible takes control of the country.
Obviously everyone would prefer a world where everybody got everything they needed, all was fair and the sun shone all day. But that world doesn't exist and never will.
What about fairness for the people who hand over 40% of their income, under threat of state-sanctioned violence if they don't, even though they can't afford the essentials they need? Clearly commie-socialism doesn't care about them.